|Date of birth:September 18, 1951|
|Place of birth: Chicago, Illinois|
|Date of death: April 5, 2007(aged 55)|
|Place of death: Chicago, Illinois|
|NFL Draft: 1973 / Round: 1 / Pick: 19|
|Debuted in 1973 for the New England Patriots|
|Last played in 1977 for the New England Patriots|
|Career highlights and awards|
|Stats at NFL.com|
Darryl Floyd Stingley (September 18, 1951 – April 5, 2007) was an American professional football wide receiver whose career was cut short by an injury. He played his entire career with the New England Patriots of the National Football League. He died from heart disease and pneumonia complicated by quadriplegia.
Stingley was born to Hilda M. Stingley and raised on Chicago's West Side. He was a standout running back at John Marshall High School. He was offered and accepted a football scholarship to Purdue University, where he was converted into a wide receiver. He was a first-round draft pick of the New England Patriots in 1973, along with John Hannah of the University of Alabama and Sam Cunningham of the University of Southern California.
Stingley had 110 receptions for 1,883 yards and 14 touchdowns in 60 regular-season games for the New England Patriots. He also had 28 carries for 244 yards and two touchdowns, 19 punt returns for 136 yards and eight kickoff returns for 187 yards. He had over 500 combined yards rushing, receiving and returning both punt and kickoffs in 1973 and 1975. He finished his career with 2,450 combined yards rushing, receiving and returning both punts and kickoffs. He ran for a 23-yard touchdown in the Patriots' 42-3 win over the Baltimore Colts on October 6, 1974. Stingley both ran for a 34-yard touchdown and caught a 21-yard touchdown pass in their 21-17 win over the Kansas City Chiefs on September 18, 1977, his 26th birthday. He is one of only three Patriots players who has caught a touchdown pass on his birthday, and is the only wide receiver to run for a touchdown and have a touchdown reception on his birthday.
In a preseason game against the Oakland Raiders at Oakland Coliseum on August 12, 1978, Stingley was hit by Raiders defensive back Jack Tatum. As Stingley and Tatum collided, Stingley lowered his helmet, which collided with Tatum's shoulder pad. The hit compressed Stingley's spinal cord, breaking his fourth and fifth cervical vertebrae. He eventually regained limited movement in his right arm, but spent the rest of his life as a quadriplegic. The injury came just after Stingley had finished negotiating a contract extension that would have made him one of the highest paid receivers in the NFL. The new contract was to be announced when the Patriots returned from the West Coast. Instead, it was never signed.
Although controversial, the hit was not against NFL rules at the time, as it was not helmet-to-helmet contact (it was a shoulder-to-helmet contact). No penalty was called on the play. Today, however, the NFL has banned all blows to the head or neck of a defenseless player, and has disallowed players to launch themselves in tackling defenseless players.
The incident became a symbol of violence in football. Stingley reportedly described it as a "freak accident". Because Stingley was a young player at the height of his career, his horrific injuries attracted significant public attention. Partly in response to Stingley's injuries, the NFL changed its rules and conventions to curtail aggressive plays. Stingley told the Chicago Tribune that he approved of more restrictive officiating, saying "It has opened the game up to allow receivers to get downfield. And it has made the game more exciting."
Tatum's coach, John Madden, and many of his teammates extended their sympathies to Stingley. Madden's post-game rush to the hospital was the beginning of a close friendship. In fact, during his visit Madden found himself the lone visitor in the hospital. No one from the Patriots was there, until Madden called their team and the team's charter plane, in takeoff mode, finally returned to the gate. Raiders offensive guard Gene Upshaw also befriended Stingley, and later was instrumental in securing benefits for disabled players through the NFL Players' Association.
A settlement was reached with the NFL, under which the Patriots agreed to pay for all of Stingley's medical expenses for the rest of his life as well as his and his children's education.
Stingley and Tatum never reconciled. Tatum contacted Stingley while writing his own autobiography, and HBO invited both men to appear on the 25th anniversary of the accident. Stingley refused after he learned of the title of Tatum's book: Final Confessions of NFL Assassin Jack Tatum. Stingley believed Tatum's efforts to contact him were nothing more than profit-motivated publicity stunts. However, in a 1992 article in Jet, Darryl said that he had forgiven Jack a long time ago. But he also said that Jack had had opportunities to contact him over the years and never really made an effort. As might be expected, the situation was complicated.
Stingley later served as executive director of player personnel for the Patriots. Stingley co-authored a 1983 memoir, Happy to Be Alive, with Mark Mulvoy. In 1993 he started a nonprofit organization to help troubled youth in west Chicago. Stingley raised three sons - Darryl Jr., John S., a Chicago detective  and Derek Stingley, who played defensive back for the Albany Firebirds in the Arena Football League
On April 5, 2007, Stingley died at Northwestern Memorial Hospital in Chicago after being discovered unresponsive in his home. His death was attributed to heart disease and pneumonia complicated by quadriplegia. The Cook County Medical Examiner listed Stingley's cause of death as an accident.
- Kreidler, Mark (2007-04-05). "Mourning Stingley, but the game goes on". ESPN.com. http://sports.espn.go.com/nfl/columns/story?columnist=kreidler_mark&id=2827276. Retrieved 2007-04-05.
- Associated Press (2007-04-06). "Darryl Stingley". Boston Herald. Archived from the original on 2007-09-29. http://web.archive.org/web/20070929144553/http://news.bostonherald.com/obituaries/view.bg?articleid=193182&format=&page=2. Retrieved 2007-04-07.
- Sophia Tureen (2007-04-06). "Darryl Stingley dies at 55". Baltimore Sun. http://www.baltimoresun.com/sports/football/bal-stingley0405,0,2401975.story?track=rss. Retrieved 2007-04-07.[dead link]
- Peter Richmond (2010-07-28). "The Assassin and the Revered: Remembering the late Jack Tatum". Sports Illustrated. http://sportsillustrated.cnn.com/2010/football/nfl/07/28/tatum/. Retrieved 2010-08-01.
- Larry Schwartz (1978-08-12). "Stingley paralyzed after being clocked by Tatum". ESPN Classic. http://espn-i.starwave.com/classic/s/moment010812-stingley-paralyzed.html. Retrieved 2007-04-05.
- Ron Borges (2003-08-12). "The Healer: No Sting of Bitterness". Boston Globe. http://www.thirdside.org/stories_26.cfm. Retrieved 2007-04-05.
- "NFL rules and fact no penalty was called on play, second to last Paragraph". 2007-05-04. http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/17963266/.
- "League's Official Player Safety Rules". 2010-11-30. http://www.nfl.com/news/story/09000d5d81c8823a/article/leagues-official-player-safety-rules.
- Ron Pollack. "The Amazing Courage of Derek Stingley". Pro Football Weekly. http://archive.profootballweekly.com/content/archives/features_1998/pollack_080399.asp. Retrieved 2007-04-05.
- Gorner, Jeremy (2007-04-05). "Paralyzed NFL player Darryl Stingley dead at 55". Los Angeles Times. http://www.latimes.com/news/obituaries/la-ex-stingley6apr06,0,2414768.story?coll=la-home-headlines. Retrieved 2007-04-07.[dead link]
- Jeremy Gorner (2007-04-05). "Darryl Stingley Dead at 55". Chicago Tribune. http://www.chicagotribune.com/sports/football/bears/chi-070405stingley,1,4992552.story?coll=chi-news-hed. Retrieved 2007-04-05.
- New England Patriots, National Football League - CBSSports.com
- A Madden in Full, Pat Toomay, Special to Page 2, ESPN. " . . . During one visit, Madden discovered a malfunction in Stingley's ventilator. In summoning a nurse to fix the problem, Madden might have saved Stingley's life. . . "
- Darryl Stingley: Ex-Football Star Tells Why He Has Forgiven Football Player Who Left Him Paralyzed, Jet Magazine, Clarence Waldron, June 8, 1992, pages 34-37.
- Stingley Will Get Degree, Sarasota Herald-Tribute, page 3C, April 21, 1992.
- Stingley, in Cap and Gown, Hears Cheers Again, NY Times,TIMOTHY W. SMITH, May 10, 1992.
- AP (2007-04-05). "Former NFL player Stingley dies at 55". USA Today. http://www.usatoday.com/sports/football/nfl/2007-04-05-stingley-obit_N.htm. Retrieved 2007-04-05.
- Jason Cole (2007-04-06). "Sorrow not guilt". Yahoo! Sports. http://sports.yahoo.com/nfl/news?slug=jc-tatum040607&prov=yhoo&type=lgns. Retrieved 2007-04-06.
- "Ex-Patriots WR Stingley dies at 55". ESPN.com. 2007-04-05. http://sports.espn.go.com/nfl/news/story?id=2826562. Retrieved 2007-04-05.
- "Darryl Stingley: Happy to Be Alive (Hardcover)". April 2007. http://www.amazon.com/Darryl-Stingley-Happy-Be-Alive/dp/0825301572.
- Statistics at Pro Football Reference
- Video of Tatum's hit
- Darryl Stingley at the Internet Movie Database
- Darryl Stingley at Find a Grave